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| How To Blow A Woman’s Mind In The Bedroom! |
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Mystery writes, "Although I was going to discuss this topic in later issues, it’s actually good to start off with it now. This way you have the right mindset going in before you begin your seduction..."
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Although I was going to discuss this topic in later issues, it’s actually good to start off with it now. This way you have the right mindset going in before you begin your seduction.
The place where you must first start turning a woman on IS IN HER MIND. Most guys think that it’s a combination of cunnilingus and various sexual positions. Yet while these are certainly included in a PlayBoys toolbox, they are not all inclusive.
All women have certain sexual fantasies. These fantasies are experienced by ALL WOMEN regardless of their ethnic background. These fantasies include: The male exotic dancer fantasy, the firefighter fantasy, the soldier/man of action fantasy, the Rogue/Bad Boy fantasy (most women’s personal favorite), etc.. You notice none of the fantasies listed included the “nice guy” fantasy!
Here’s what women want…THEY WANT A BAD BOY! I’ll explain. We all come from the factory with certain software installed. Try as we might, we can’t change or alter the software. It’s embedded in our unconscious mind. A woman’s software tells her that if a man exhibits good “survival value” or ‘S’ value, she will be attracted to him. Resist as she might, she can’t help except to be attracted to him!
Some traits that women use to assess good survival value are: financial resources (being a good provider), other resources (housing, cars, etc.), social competency (being able to handle yourself well with other people) and the ability to physically protect her and her offspring. The more of these traits that you exhibit the more attracted to you she will be.
Once again, ALL WOMEN OF ALL NATIOANLITIES WILL FIND YOU TO BE ATTRACTIVE when you exhibit these traits. In women & men, attraction works like turning on a light switch. Just like when a pretty woman with a sexy body (of any nationality) walks past and you look, it’s like you can’t seem to stop yourself, women are the same way. We can’t turn off attraction. When a man with high ‘S’ value walks past, women can’t help except to look! Naughty…Naughty!
While women assess a man based on his “survival value” or ‘S’ value, men assess women based on their “replicative value” or ‘R’ value (we’ll cover this in another issue). Alright, evolutionary biology aside, this is why going into this Love & Romance game without having the right mental tools to be a master seducer can lead to embarrassment and heartbreak.
Next week, we learn how to become her “Bad Boy” fantasy and really get her juices flowing!
About Mystery
Mystery is a freelance writer for BYP Magazine. He's an unrepentant international PlayBoy who makes no apologies for his actions. Each week he answers questions from men - on how to meet and pick up women; and from women - concerning men. Mystery has dated women of all nationalities and from different parts of the globe. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Psychology from UCLA.
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Posted on May 04, 2008 19:05pm.
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