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NastyBoy writes, "You’re in a club scoping out the ladies when you see her sitting at the bar. You walk up to her and she asks you to buy her a drink. Do you buy her a drink like she asks?"
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You’re in a club scoping out the ladies when you see her sitting at the bar. You walk up to her and she asks you to buy her a drink. Do you buy her a drink like she asks?
No! Fellas DO NOT BUY WOMEN DRINKS! If you do, you will become like all of the other guys that she plays. Women like to play games. They go out to a club for a night of fun with every intention of having guys buy them drinks all night long and never giving these guys the time of day. They’ve been playing this game since they were teenagers.
You’ve seen it before. A guy walks up to a woman at the bar. He asks if he can buy her a drink thinking that this will get him “in”. She accepts his offer, orders an expensive drink, chats with him for all of 3 minutes (to be polite) then either turns her back to him or gets up and walks away. That sorry bastard has just been played!
If a woman says that she left her money, or her purse, in her car and asks you to buy her a drink, think about this: what woman is going to forget her money in her car yet remember to bring her makeup?
She’s trying to play you! If you allow her to play you, you will virtually eliminate your chances of picking her up. Women like a man that’s a challenge. When she asks you to buy her a drink, she’s trying to establish control over you. A manipulation game. So when you give in, she already knows that she can control you. So you’re not a challenge.
If she’s attracted to you, she will still be attracted to you even if you don’t buy her a drink (there’s a certain way you have to handle it though). Yet if she’s not attracted to you, then by not buying her a drink you will find this out BEFORE spending $10 - $15 (or more) on her.
I’ve dated women who laughed at all of the guys that they would flirt with just to get them to buy drinks for them. They admitted that they had absolutely no interest in the guys whatsoever. They felt that if the guys were stupid enough to fall for it…then shame on them!
Don’t allow yourself to become a played sorry bastard. Don’t buy her that drink!
Now some of you might think this is a crazy tactic. Not for the TRUE PlayBoy. So when she asks you to buy her that drink what should you do? I’ll answer this in the next issue.
About Nasty Boy
Nasty Boy is a freelance writer for BYP Magazine. He's an unrepentant international PlayBoy who makes no apologies for his actions. Each week he answers questions from men - on how to meet and pick up women; and from women - concerning men. Nasty Boy has dated women of all nationalities and from different parts of the globe. He holds a bachelor’s degree in Psychology from UCLA.
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Posted on Aug 03, 2008 14:56pm.
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